“From the moment we are born, we begin to die, some sooner than others.”
These words open Green Butterflies and set the tone — this is not merely a tale of love, but also one of death, judgment, cruelty, and the suffocating societal expectations that deny certain individuals the basic right to exist. Directed by Gustavo Nieto Roa, this Colombian film does not sugarcoat its message. It cuts deep, targeting the heart, the family, the school, and the toxic norms we continue to accept as normal.
📚 Plot Overview
Mateo is a bright, popular high school student who seems to have it all: intelligence, charm, and confidence. However, when he falls in love with Daniel, another boy at school, their world begins to unravel. What should have been a joyful realization turns into a painful journey of bullying, betrayal, and heartbreak. Their relationship is exposed—maliciously and publicly—leading to disastrous consequences. The school offers no protection, and families respond with fear, shame, or silence. The two boys are left isolated in a world that refuses to accept them.
🎭 Acting Performances
Deivi Duarte, portraying Mateo, anchors the film with a raw emotional performance that is both vulnerable and powerful. Kevin Bury brings quiet strength to the role of Daniel, exuding a presence that lingers without needing to raise its voice. Their chemistry feels genuine, fragile, and compelling. The supporting cast further intensifies the portrayal of a hostile environment, where adults either enable or turn a blind eye to the suffering of their students.
🏫 Social Commentary
The film’s most powerful aspect is its unflinching examination of institutional failure. The school is not a sanctuary; it is an oppressive institution. The principal and certain teachers actively contribute to the boys’ torment. The narrative offers no comforting speeches or heroic teachers. There is only silence, complicity, and the use of rules as tools of repression.
💔 Emotional Depth
Green Butterflies delves deeply into the emotional consequences of being labeled “different.” Depression, isolation, and suicide are explored with brutal honesty. One of the most heart-wrenching moments comes when Mateo desperately attempts to connect with his mother. Despite his presence, she does not see him. This poignant scene conveys a critical message: you don’t have to be an active bully to be part of the problem; sometimes, doing nothing can be just as harmful.
📣 A Film with a Purpose
Green Butterflies is more than just a movie — it is a cry for help. It speaks not only to LGBTQ+ youth but to all young people who have been made to feel invisible, unwanted, or unsafe. The film concludes with a note about Colombia’s 2015 educational reform, which mandates respect for sexual orientation — a law born from tragedies like the ones depicted in the film. Released two years after the reform, the film acts as a mirror reflecting the pain that led to such a change.
🦋 Final Thoughts
This is not a film you watch easily, nor should it be. Green Butterflies lingers long after the credits roll, like a whisper from someone who didn’t make it, asking why love has to hurt so much. Comfort is not offered here, but truth is. And sometimes, that’s exactly what we need.
